My First Experience with a Ladyboy in Bangkok

That’s quite an embarrassing story, but if I want this blog to work I better cut the bullshit and be honest with you.

As someone who organizes parties in Thailand and has been going out a lot here… I guess this was meant to happen at some point.

I promise I will share everything with you on this blog.

Even my unexpected experience with a Thai Ladyboy. 🙈

But first…

About Ladyboys in Thailand

Let’s talk a little bit about Thai ladyboys first.

Or “Katoey” as they say in Thai. 🔞

Thailand is (unfortunately 🤔) famous around the globe for Ladyboys, Gogo bars, Sexpats… so much that as an expat living in Bangkok, people always ask me about these things whenever I talk about my life here, especially those who never been to Thailand. 🙈

But I must say, talking about Ladyboys is always interesting and often lead to funny debates. 🤪

Between the guys that are scared to be fooled and the ones that don’t want to say they’re curious to try, and sometimes really interested, it’s always a fun conversation to have.

But there are also a lot of misconceptions so let’s cover the basics things you should know about Thai ladyboys.

bangkok ladyboy bar

You have little chance to be fooled by a Thai Ladyboy

If like many people I’ve talked to you’re so scared about falling for a ladyboy, I got good news for you: It’s really unlikely to happen!

First, you’ll be able to spot it most of the time.

As much as 95% of the time. 😇

Usually from the first look, or maybe the second, you’re able to tell if it’s one or not.

Most of them will say openly on Tinder or other dating apps (like Thaifriendly, Thaicupid…) or when you meet them that they are ladyboys.

As for freelancers on these apps and in bars, ladyboys included, they are looking for customers and money.

Not for troubles. So they won’t lie.

But whenever you got a doubt, just ask. 🤗

Because, yes, you can ask!

Girls in Thailand, especially the ones you find in tourist areas, have been asked a thousand times already.

A lot even feel the need to state on their dating profile “I’m not a Ladyboy”.

So I let you imagine how many guys have asked so they feel like the need to put it in their dating profile. 🙃

Just be funny and ask it nicely (and be ready to buy her a drink if you offend her!) 🍻

Now for the 5% left.

They are the ones that can easily seduce you because they look like stunning girls.

While they will almost always tell you at some point, if they don’t, as we like to say in Thailand, you have a good story to share with your friends! 😂

That’s exactly what happened to me. 🙈

But keep in mind that these hot ladyboys in the top 5% usually hang out in the high-end venues.

They’re not working as freelancers and you won’t find them in backpackers clubs.

The hottest ladyboys make a really good living as models, influencers… like the ones in the picture below.

They are the finalist of Miss Tiffany’s Universe beauty pageant, the equivalent of Miss Universe for Ladyboys.

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Yes, they are Thai Ladyboys.!

What happened with this Ladyboy in Bangkok ?

After over 2 years in Thailand, a lot of nights out in Bangkok and Pattaya, and working with MojoSons, I’ve met a lot of ladyboys. 🙈

We’ve done Ladyboy Pranks in Bangkok and Pattaya for Bachelor Parties.

I’ve also shared a few buckets with some really ugly ones in Khao San Road and Nana.

And of course, I don’t count how many times some of them grabbed my dick in Nana or Walking Street… 😆

And truth is, I usually don’t get fooled that easily. 🙃

That’s why this post is a hoax for April’s Food Day.

I knew it would get everybody’s attention and it was about time I talk about Ladyboys to answer once and for all the questions you’ve been asking me. 😂

As I’m still living in Bangkok, I’m not done meeting and probably working with some of them… but as of April 1st, 2018, nothing happened (yet) between me and any ladyboy in Bangkok (and the rest of the world).  😂

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In the lift before a Ladyboy Prank in Bangkok

The truth about Ladyboys

The hidden truth behind all these ladyboys in Thailand, all the Ladyboy Bars, all the ladyboys working as freelancers… As you can guess, there’s quite a lot of people into that. 😉

I’m no one to judge what people like.

If there’s one place on earth where you need to have an open mind, it’s Bangkok and Thailand in general. 😇

A lot of people come to Thailand to try it or because that’s something they really like. 🔥

Why? Because, it’s a girl’s body with a 🍆, or because you can do stuff we don’t imagine… Honestly, I don’t know.

I had this discussion so many times with so many different people and I still don’t have the answer.

I guess one day I will need to have this conversation with someone who really likes ladyboys to find out. 🤔

Or maybe not. I’m fine with not knowing too.

Where to meet Thai Ladyboys ?

For those of you who want to meet or date Thai ladyboys, you’ve got plenty of options in Bangkok and Thailand.

In Thailand in general, I would say dating apps like Thaicupid, Thaifriendly, Myladyboydate… 🔞

Now in Bangkok, there’s quite a few in Khaosan Road, Silom (around Patpong area), Soi 22, Soi Cowboy…

But the main area to find ladyboys in Bangkok is without a doubt Nana (Sukhumvit soi 4), Nana Plaza, and anywhere between Sukhumvit 4 and 11 at dawn.📍

Dating ladyboys online

Most dating apps and websites in Thailand have ladyboys on them and some are even dedicated to transgender dating.

Here are a few examples :

  • Thaifriendly is one of the most popular dating apps in Thailand with over 2 million users and thousands of ladyboys.
  • Thaicupid also separates girls and ladyboys so it’s easier to find them.
  • Smooci to find ladyboys escorts in Bangkok (and other countries).
  • Myladyboydate is only about dating ladyboys and transgenders.
  • Tinder also has ladyboys but they show as girls in the app. You have to check their description (like the one below) or ask to know if they’re transgender or not.
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Thai Ladyboy on Tinder

A few tips to spot a ladyboy

Now if that’s not what you’re into and you’re scared to fall in the trap, here’s how to spot a Ladyboy :

  • Their Size, especially their feet and hands. Thai Girls aren’t really tall in general, and they don’t have big feet. If she’s got bigger feet than you, that’s a hint.
  • Adam’s Apple. Obviously.
  • Their voice. Even though some of them got a really feminine voice, the vast majority sound like men.

I have one trick that I don’t recommend using but that usually works like a charm. Pinch them gently. 🙊

Most Ladyboys control their voice to sound like real girls.

But when you surprise them by accidentally walking on their foot or playfully pinching them, chances are they won’t control their voice and you’ll be able to hear their real voice as they react. 🤔

You Have a Story With a ladyboy ?

Don’t be shy, share it with us.

And if you still have any questions about ladyboys in Bangkok, and Thai ladyboys in general, let me know in the comments!

I’m curious to know what’s your take on that! 😎

4 thoughts on “My First Experience with a Ladyboy in Bangkok”

  1. When I was in the US Army I was stationed in Danang, VietNam. Took a two week R&R with a fellow soldier and we went to Bangkok. I must say we had a really great time. Met up with a couple gals (which turned out to be ladyboys) but at that time, who really cared. They stuck with us for a week and a half, and my friend and I provided for whatever they needed. We both hated to depart and head back to Danang, but we still have our memories.

    1. Love that story Harry, thanks for sharing! And there’s a lot of people with the same story. I’ve seen many guys finding out it’s a ladyboy later in the night and being fine with it. I guess they take it as a once in a lifetime experience and even if they probably would never do it back home, they let things happen here because it’s Thailand. How funny.

  2. Retired and moved to Pattaya about 3 years ago. It’s been such a nice change from my life I had in the boring United States. I’m currently dating a ladyboy and love the ladyboys here soo much.

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