An Unexpected story with a Ladyboy in Bangkok...
That’s quite an embarrassing one, but if I want this blog to work I better cut the bullshit and be honest with you.
As someone who organize parties in Thailand and have been going out a lot here… I guess this was meant to happen at some point.
I promise I will share everything with you on this blog. Even my unexpected experience with a Thai Ladyboy. 🙈
More about ladyboys in Thailand
Let’s talk a little bit about Ladyboys first. Or “Katoey" as they say in Thai. 🔞
Thailand is (unfortunately) famous around the globe for Thai Ladyboys, Gogo bars, Sexpats… so much that as an expat living in Bangkok, people always asked me about this things, especially those who never been to Thailand. 🙈
But I must say, talking about Ladyboys is always interesting and often bring funny debates. 🤪
Between the guys that are scared to be fooled and the ones that don’t want to say they’re curious to try or really interested, it's always a fun conversation to have.
There’s also a few things we need to cover to break some misconceptions. 😞
You have little chance to be fooled by a Thai Ladyboy
Now, if like many you’re so scared about falling for a ladyboy, I got good news for you : It’s really unlikely to happen !
First, you’ll be able to spot it most of the time. As much as 95% of the time. 😇
Usually from the first look, or maybe the second, you're able to tell if it's one.
Usually freelancers, ladyboys included, are looking for customers and money. Not for troubles. 💸
Now if you’re in a club and you’ve got a doubt, just ask. 🤗
Because, yes, you can ask!
Girls in Thailand, especially the ones you find in tourist areas and venues, have been asked a thousand times already.
A lot even feel the need to state on their dating profile “I’m not a Ladyboy”.
So I let you imagine how many guys have asked so they feel like they need to put it in their dating profile. 🙃
Just be funny and ask it nicely (and be ready to buy her a drink if you offend her!) 🍻
Now for the 5% left. The ones that can easily seduce you because they look like stunning girls.
While they will almost always tell you at some point. If they don’t, as I like to say, you have a good story to share with your friends ! 😂
That’s exactly what happened to me. 🙈
But keep in mind that this hot ladyboys in the top 5% usually hang out in the high end venues.
They’re not working as freelancers and you won’t find them in cheap clubs. The hottest ladyboys make a really good living as models, influencers… like the ones in the picture below.
What happened with this Ladyboy in Bangkok ?
With over 2 years in Thailand, a lot of nights out in Bangkok and Pattaya, and working with MojoSons, I’ve met a lot of ladyboys. 🙈
We’ve done Ladyboy Pranks in Bangkok and Pattaya for Stag Parties. I’ve also shared a few buckets with some really ugly ones in Khao San road and Nana.
And of course I don’t count how many times some of them grabbed my dick in Nana or Walking Street... 😆
And truth is, I usually don’t get fooled that easy. 🙃
That’s why this post is a hoax for April’s Food Day.
I knew it would get everybody’s attention and it was about time I talk about Lady boys to answer once and for all the questions I've been asked countless times. 😂
As I’m still living in Bangkok, I’m not done meeting and probably working with some of them... but as of April 1st 2018, nothing happened (yet) between me and any ladyboy in Bangkok (and the rest of the world). 😂
The truth about Ladyboys
The hidden truth behind all this Ladyboys on Tinder in Thailand, all the Ladyboy Bars, all the freelancers… As you can guess, there’s quite a lot of people into that. 😉
I’m no one to judge what people like. If there's one place on earth where you need to have an open mind, it's Bangkok and Thailand in general. 😇
A lot of people come to Thailand to try it or because that’s something they really like. 🔥
Why? Because, it's a girl's body with a 🍆, or because you can do stuff we don't imagine... Honestly, I don't know.
I had this discussion so many times with so many different people and I still don’t have the answer.
I guess one day I will need to have this conversation with someone who really like ladyboys to find out. 🤔
Where to meet Thai Ladyboys ?
In Thailand in general, I would say dating apps like Tinder, Thaicupid, Thaifriendly, Myladyboydate… 🔞
Now in Bangkok, there’s quite a few in Khaosan Road, Silom (around Patpong area), Soi 22, Soi Cowboy…
But the main hub is to find ladyboys in Bangkok is Nana (Sukhumvit soi 4), Nana Plaza and anywhere between Sukhumvit 4 and 11 at dawn.📍
Dating ladyboys online
Most dating apps and websites in Thailand have ladyboys on them and some are even dedicated to transgender dating.
Here's a few exemples :
- Thaifriendly is one of the most popular dating app in Thailand with over 2 millions users and thousands of ladyboys.
- Thaicupid is another popular dating site in Thailand where you can search for girls only or ladyboys only.
- Smooci is an escort app with both ladyboys and girls.
- Myladyboydate is only for dating ladyboys and transgenders.
- Tinder also have ladyboys but they show as girls in the app. You have to check their description or ask to know if they're transgenders or not.
A few tips to spot a ladyboy
Now if that’s not what you’re into and you’re scared to fall in the trap, here’s how to spot a Ladyboy :
- Their Size, especially their feet and hands. Thai Girls aren’t really tall in general, and they don’t have big feet. If she's got bigger feet than you, that’s a hint.
- Adam’s Apple. Obviously.
- Their voice. Even though some of them got a really feminine voice, the vast majority sound like men.
I have one trick that I don’t recommend using but that usually work like a charm. Pinch them gently. 🙊
Most Ladyboys control their voice to sound like real girls.
But when you surprise them by accidentally walking on their foot or playfully pinch them, chances are they won’t control their voice and you’ll be able to hear their real voice as they react. 🤔
You have any story with a ladyboy ?
Don't be shy, share it with us.
And if you still have any questions about ladyboys in Bangkok, and ladyboys in general, let me know in the comments !
I'm curious to know what's your take on that ! 😎